Thursday, July 21, 2016

Avoid being a victim

Senior Moments
Terri Andersen
With identity theft the fastest growing crime in this country, and senior citizens considered a vulnerable target, the SearStone retirement community developers decided to host an identity theft prevention session for seniors on April 17 at the Prestonwood Country Club. Officer Brian Austin, community service coordinator of the Cary Police Department, gave his audience the following helpful hints to avoid being a victim of ID theft. - - 1) Don't give any information to people who identify themselves, either on the phone or by e-mail, as legitimate banks or credit-card companies you deal with, who claim they want to update their records of your accounts. Instead, call your bank or credit-card company direct to verify if information is needed. If not, call the police department to report the incident. 2) Beware of e-mail “phishing.” That's another scam that looks official from a bank or company you deal with. If they ask you to click on a blue link, don't do it. If you click on the link they ask you to, they can get their own card with your identity sent to their address and you won't know about it until you get a call from a collection agency for a charge you never made. So never give any information to an unsolicited e-mail or phone call. 3) Austin also advised us not to carry our Social Security card in our purse or wallet in case it gets stolen, and to shred any documents with personal information or blank checks that come in the mail. He suggested shredding often so you don’t end up with a big accumulation. Austin can be reached at brianaustin@townofcary.org. Next Caroline Farmer, deputy director of the N.C. Department of Justice's Victims Unit, had all kinds of tips to avoid being an identity-theft victim. - 1) She also stressed shredding anything we're discarding that contains personal or account information that would let a thief steal our identity, and she invited us to SearStone's free Shredder Day on April 25  * 2) The best way to find out if anyone is using your information without your knowledge is to get your credit report from all three credit bureaus every year We're allowed one free report a year. -If we have reason to believe someone is using our personal information without our approval, there's a new consumer right provided by North Carolina law that allows us to place a security freeze on our credit reports by notifying a credit bureau to block anyone from opening new accounts or getting credit in our name. The only drawback is that if you need to get a loan, a new credit card or apply for a job, you would need to lift the freeze temporarily or remove it permanently by notifying the credit bureau. Another tip from Farmer: If the credit bureau asks for your personal information, respond from a wired phone, not a cellphone or a wireless phone. 4) If you do experience ID theft, call the Attorney General's office at (877) 566-7226 or the local police department to file a report. That will allow you to file an affidavit for protection to clear your name. 5) Rather than carry your original Medicare card with your Social Security number on it in your wallet or purse, memorize the number and make a copy of the card for your wallet, with the SSN blocked out. Be aware that you don't have to give your number to everyone who asks for it. Most times it's not necessary. 6) When making out a check, sign your name in a certain way so you'd know if someone else is trying to cash a check of yours. Also, don't put your driver's license number on your checks. If blank “convenience” checks come in the mail, call to cancel them, since unlocked mailboxes by the road can be unsafe. If you do online banking, make sure your Spyware and firewall protection is up to date. 7) At an ATM make sure no one is near you. Someone with a cellphone can zoom in and take a picture of the card in your hand or your PIN number. 8) A credit card offers more consumer protection than a debit card because a thief can wipe out your account with a debit card before you're aware of it. " The session was very informative and a definite plus was that questions were accepted and answered.


Monday, July 18, 2016

The Cary News-We followed the boys here


We followed the boys here
 As new residents of Cary (a little over a year ago), my husband Herb and I decided to visit the Cary Senior Center last November to see if we could meet other senior citizens and possibly find some kindred souls who could tell us a little about Cary. The first activity was the Veterans Day Luncheon, since Herb was a U.S. Marine who served in Korea, and veterans from any war seem to have an affinity for other vets who experienced what they did. The luncheon was great and we got to meet the mayor, who asked where we were from and what motivated us to move to Cary. Before we could answer, he added that most parents come to Cary to be near their kids, who moved here for employment purposes, and we smiled because that was exactly what brought us here. Over the last 10 years, our four boys moved to North Carolina, one at a time, because the job market was better here than it was in Connecticut. The first son settled in Chapel Hill, two now live in Raleigh and one in Apex, Herb and I considered relocating south also when we realized there was no family left in Connecticut, but we weren't sure we wanted to leave a place where : we spent the last 36 years of our lives. However, our boys convinced us to sell the house because they felt we didn't need such a big place anymore and they didn't want to worry about us shoveling snow and getting through the cold New England winters. So they house hunted in this area until they found what they saw as the perfect house for us in Cary (close to each of them yet distant enough for everyone to have their space). Believe it or not, we bought the house sight unseen (other than pictures on a Web site) and couldn't believe how everything worked out so well. The boys found us a lawyer in Cary to handle the paperwork, then supplied us with a refrigerator, washer and dryer, since we left all our appliances for the couple who bought our house. One of the boys and his girlfriend even came up to Connecticut by plane to drive us down here in our car after the movers put our furniture into a moving van. I’m happy to say, we love the house, love being close to our kids, and are very impressed with the town of Cary. It has a charm all its own, is well kept, and is well equipped with stores that enable us to buy anything we could possibly need. I might add that we've found a lot to buy since we've moved here, so parents relocating to be near their kids must be good for Cary's economy. There are a few downsides, though. When we saw Cary on the map, we thought we were moving to a small town with maybe twenty or thirty thousand people, and were overwhelmed to find it has a population of over 110,000, which of course makes for a lot of traffic. I don't drive, so I have to depend on my husband for transportation. While he loves those green arrow signs at intersections, and the signs that announce major intersections coming up, I find all that traffic pedestrian-unfriendly when I try to walk anyplace and have to cross a parkway or major road. Another downside was trying to find a doctor who would accept new Medicare patients. It took us a whole year to finally find one. On the whole though, we're glad we made the decision to move here.
Terri Andersen lives in Cary and enjoys writing about issues related to seniors. -